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i sort of understand the latest post but what is this? i have not the slightest idea. 
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Monk, please explain. And if it's easier to do so in Urdu then write it in Urdu.
what he is saying that people who suppress their desires of indulging in an extramarital sexual relationship, deserve respect from us.
Now how the hell are we going to identify those people, only Monk knows.
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hahahahaha i didnt say that in a sad way. i just meant to say love is not what im looking for in a man. i guess, ive got in so many other relations alhumdulillah. im looking more for a person who lets me live in peace and keeps my heart and mind in peace. everyone can love but very few ppl will make u feel at peace and content.
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On a lighter note, some say mooqa, some say mowka.
Zis difference between urdu and Hndi.
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For you to look outside of your marriage for.... - sympathy - emotional support - companionship - gratification (physical and/or mental)
I know that most people are going to feel that they would never do this but I'm not asking if you would or not....I'm asking how bad the situation at home would have to be for you to consider and perhaps embark upon another relationship.
what would it take? hmmmmm
..a girl to say yes..
magar koi maanti hi naheen hai
itnay saal say koshish kiye ja raha hoon
aik zara koi chance ton day phir dekhain kya hota hay
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for me it could be any of these
abuse
lack of connection/incompatibility
lack of romance or intimacy
arrogant/bossy spouse
lack of peace of mind
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Infidelity has no excuse.
But any excuse can be made.
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Some wise man once told me . . . Sharafat is not a constant , its a variable , and depends on the situation you are in .
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For you to look outside of your marriage for.... - sympathy - emotional support - companionship - gratification (physical and/or mental)
I know that most people are going to feel that they would never do this but I'm not asking if you would or not....I'm asking how bad the situation at home would have to be for you to consider and perhaps embark upon another relationship.
If i dont get chilghozey next year.
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OK - let us all gather some funds to dispatch said food item ASAP to save the I man's marriage.
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If I feel that he doesn't even care.
If he cares then he will be sorry for doing whatever. He will try to make it better but if he doesn't even bother then what the hack. I will go look for someone who does care.
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If i dont get chilghozey next year.
sincere reply from a male member in Life1
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Infidelity has no excuse.
But any excuse can be made.
this is awesome. did you take off your sunglasses in slow motion as you said it?
Infidelity, physical abuse, and lack of respect ( very broad term). Husband desire to take another wife. For some women the wandering eye and constantly flirting with other women. For those of you watching maat the Azar like personality.
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For all the issues stated above, would you try to talk about / resolve / seek help before choosing alternative service providers?
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Absolutely.
As the saying goes "the minds that create the problems are not the minds that can find the solution". Counseling or third party mediation should be part of the game plan.
Physical abuse, absence of communication, respect, trust and compassion! Basically when he stops being a friend to me, ill just go find another one 