Re: What would happen when .....
every parent is insecure about their tarbiat.
uncle, itni education dalwa dee thee to us education ka istemal kerna bhi sekha daitay. ya sirf itna he khe dain k "baita, use your education and knowledge wisely"...and it will be enough for us girls.
this choi-moi attitude is ruining us!
kindly pray for us, and stop transferring these insecurities in your daughters.
you are also a married man, so ask yourself does khana pakana really every mattered to you? did ALLAH SWT made Eve to make only food for Adam?
every MAN (yes, i am talking about The Man) dont need a slave, they need someone to share their time with, share their values, and share their approach in life. and same goes for the woman.
ps. kindly, do yourself a favour and ask your daughter what she thinks about marriage? and then contribute your rational experiences (up and downs in life) with her cuz we girls preciously take our fathers opinion.
ps.2 ur dauther is my age, and apprently i recently discovered my passion for cooking. its a lively experience. i started off by taking photographs. and now this food photography has turned in to a serious business. so give her the recipe of your favorite food to her and ask her to make it for you. :)