Firstly. . .the questions that I posed were intended not to discount Islam as a "way of life" but to redirect our focus. If we were to take the example that Shirin has presented and evaluate it according to religion then we should have been in a debate discussing Islam vs. Christianity. (In which case btw, both girl and boy would have been severely punished.)
However. . . what we have been discussing is how "society" addressed the situation. My intent was to point out the difference in eastern and western cultures -- where that which is somewhat acceptable in western societies is still not accepted in eastern societies.
Abdulla . . .
You claim that culture is dependent on religion. Were this the case we would not be facing such difficulties in Pakistan. Unfortunately culture and religion, as practiced today, are two entirely different things. Culture is more influenced by geographic location than by religion. And I believe this to be true of any Islamic State, be it Pakistan or one from the Middle Eastern sector. Point is: Our culture is NOT Islamic.
Frankly, I believe I have read Shirin's post carefully and I believe that I have interpretted it accurately. If I haven't maybe she could step in and correct me so that I don't carry this thread off to an irrelevant direction.
I don't believe that anyone participating in this thread meant to suggest that Islam is not the best way of life. I also don't believe that if anyone did suggest that, Islam would need any advocates. Islam stands on it's own and speaks for itself. It's benefits need not be sung out. My belief is that no matter what anyone does or says, Islam cannot be tarnished. So, my verse-quoting friend, I would urge you to refrain. I would rather urge you to encourage those that have questions and doubts to go and seek out the knowledge for themselves directly from the Holy Book.
The days of someone being convinced merely by you repeating the word Islam thrice are gone.
Finally. . .
"Either say you agree to whatever Islam (Quran / Sunnah) says without any ifs, buts, maybe s, and doubts or else do what ever you like to do. "
I disagree with this comment. If there are people out there that have mixed feelings about Islam. . . I would never shun them this way. This is a practice that has been carried on for decades and has done more damage than good. It has driven away more people than it has attracted to our beloved religion. I would much rather have a sincere believer that may at times question certain aspects of the religion than hypocritical people that preach one thing and practice another. For I believe that the one sincere person that questions will also be motivated to find the answers, and since I believe Islam to be the ultimate way of life, I know that he/she would find the truth.