Re: What would ammi abu say????
Eh... i'm the type of person that would just never start the relationship if I know my parents wouldn't approve. People know their parents well...they know what their expectations are... its easier to use that as guidelines... it makes life a lot easier. Because truth is- if your parents were easy going and you think you can convince them later on.... well then u also wouldnt have fears about getting into the relationship due to knowing that they would dissapprove.
So why dig yourself in a hole when you can totally avoid it???? Thats my opinion....
I would hate to cause my parents any sadness ... and cause unnecessary stress in their life. So I would just avoid putting myself in that situation.