what would a `good` husband do in these situations...

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You are such a woman-hater…:rolleyes:

Some girl is so distressed…this might be the only a place she has to vent…all of you have nothing but contempt for her…its really disturbing women having go at other women who are looking to vent/share their problems…

shame on you all…

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ookay.. when i asked what side, i meant are you married/in a relationship or single. :\

ainda kripaya essay likhney say pehle sawaal dhyaan se parhiyey… :snooty:

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:rotfl:

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Nadz, do you actually love your husband or you just 'like' him because he always gives in? I sense so much ego and selfishness in this relationship from your side.

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Hi Nadz. I have nothing useful to add, just wanted to say hi.

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run far far away.

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You're taking a lot for granted. Treat him better.

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But its his fault ....why he doesn't show his wife what he is feeling inside.......

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Something tells me that won't be too pretty.

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The husband must be considering this gal as a liability he have to stick with for rest of his life or until something happens and he get freed...

I wonder if he have anything positive to say about his wife, he must be thinking that it is some sin of the past that he ended up with such wife...

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Put a sock in it

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Men have a limit to tolerance and i think if u push him and push him with nagging he may just snap and then u'll be in a worser situation of being in pakistan, with ur in laws and no attention from hubby.

just do ur own thing.

another things - why dont u try and find out if there are any guppies near where u are and organise a coffee morning. you'l end up making some friends and enjoying urself

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This is so true. Why does that happen though? Why do people feel a need for something like that? She doesn't hate him.

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Mouthy wife wanting her own way - Give her space, ignore her and do only the necessary things without listening or obeying her. When she gets a bit worried about the lack of attention then to sit her down and ask her to talk about why she feels she needs to be mouthy.

Wife cries all the time, about various things - I never assume that people cry over silly things. The reason why a woman will cry is that she is genuinely frustrated about something important, but when she tells me it's about silly things I understand that there is actually a root cause that is not silly. I make it my task to find out what the root cause is. If it is a matter of not enough attention then finding out the root cause will automatically solve that one, but if on further investigation I find out something else is up then I try to work out a way to resolve the situation. Women like goals and structure in life, so if wife wants to go home then I decide a plan to send and ensure she is part of that plan, she can help prepare and save up if necessary.

Oh ... It's you? ... Well if he has agreed to it, then you need to plan for it. Make sure people are aware of your plans including his parents. If you don't drop the idea to them now then it will be hard to accept later on. Start preparing, get all the paperwork sorted out in good time. Make sure your arrangements for living are in place. Job applications and all. You need to drive the agreement to make it a reality.

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You are in depression just try someways to relax yourself otherwise you have to go on medication.

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Dig into a big bowl of icecream. Take a deep breath.

Tell yourself that your husband is already doing what a 'good' husband should do. Moving is always tough. Moving with in laws even more so. But hey just give everything time. Try ignoring little things

Too much frequent vent-outs could also end up in an uncontrollable explosion ! :)

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wow enigmatic, that was exactly what i was gonna post too! and OMGZ we have the same avatar!!! coincidence? i think not. :hayaa:

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:smiley:

haha Telepathy :stuck_out_tongue:

:biggthumb:

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Dude, I work in a help center for rape-domestic abuse victims. I am not a woman hater AT ALL…But what I did tell her was to learn how to express what she feels by speaking like an adult. If she just constantly cries to her husband all the time, every single night (whether there is a serious reason behind it or not), he will stop caring at some point and he will stop paying attention. I know her situation is not easy ( as* I *previously mentionned), but deal with it as an adult! I was not trying to put her down, but she wont get anything by constantly whining to him. Especially when it does not seem (from her previous posts) that she has made that much of an effort to adapt.

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become chris brown..