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how many of these advisors are married, or atleast have/have had a significant other?
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dyslexia?
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dyslexia?
dis-likes-ya :D
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are you ever happy?
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You know what nadz, I hope your husband gets a second wife that actually makes him happy. Women like you don't deserve good men.
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What the heck? Why such harsh responses?
She recognizes what her flaws are and has listed them individually. Not everyone does everything perfectly.
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nadz is much misunderstood. half the times shes the one who's making herself look silly and its got to be deliberate. i miss the fiance days though.. when the guy threw away a roti or something...
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yawn. ur not newly wed anymore. blah de blah.
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I bet that was a 12 page thread!
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[quote="princessjojo, post:70, topic:238598"]
What the heck? Why such harsh responses?
She recognizes what her flaws are and has listed them individually. Not everyone does everything perfectly./QUOTEI
I agree she does recognize the problem and seems like she has attentions to fix it
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Would you have cleaned the floor if he had stopped to talk with you? 
Just think and bow to him everyday how caring he is to you. 
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Your husband should get married to another girl...
..That will sort you out.
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So now you advocating prostration before humans. You do realise Nadz is Muslim.
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seriously nadz no joke, u make me feel like i m the best my hubs can have :D ill b forever grateful for that. nadz i know all of us have a psycho in us.. sometimes its hidden somewhere and gets out when something really bad happens.. and then there are ppl like u who get crazy psycho for the simplest things!!! i also act the same way like u do.. but sometimes.. but u do it on a daily and min by min basis and its not healthy for YOU nor ur relationship yaar! u do need serious therapy. u can no longer blame ur pregnancy hormones honey... so pls try to change urself ... relax take a deep breathe and THINK RATIONALLY before u utter anything from ur mouth ... ur life (not to forget ur poor hubs life) will b soooo mch happier and calmer. bolne se pehle socha... is wot i m sayin mature, practical .. am i expecting too mch... did my hubs intended somethin else. u know uve got a gr8 hubs then why are u treatin him this way.. do u wanna lose him before u realise how badly u treated him? no rite.. then dear pls pls be a lil bit mature and responsible... hugs and kisses! good luck :)
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So now you advocating prostration before humans. You do realise Nadz is Muslim.
Good Lord.. yar mahawwraten keh raha thay diwana sahib.. no need to bow.. he just means to say this guy is a super man to tolerate nadz
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Yes. Thank You.
Aqal-Mund Ra Ishara Kaafi.
( To a wise person simple example is enough)
@ sarab, 
P.S. I am just happy he is so understanding, he did not want to see her using the mop.
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And this is what I mean whenever I mention that people nowadays are less mature and sometimes people are not willing to make things work. Nadz, I realize going to a new country must be very difficult so your complaints about that are valid. However, expecting him to do whatever you want is not realistic and if he hasn't already started a fight about it, chances are it's building and he'll explode somewhere down the line. It's perfectly valid to voice your opinions but please don't expect him to do whatever you want.
Realize that there are women with husbands who are nowhere near as understanding as yours and you should be thankful for that. Like I mentioned in one of your other threads, **GET A HOBBY! **Learn a language, help out around the house, etc. Trust me, when you're busy with something, or you have goals, you feel much more productive and even the fun things you do are more enjoyable. I've had weeks where I spent the entire time sleeping, hanging our with friends, playing basketball, or video games and after a while it gets boring. You need something productive to do. It will take your mind off things and somewhere down the line, I guarantee you won't even realize when you got used to living in Pakistan.
Just a question, have you ever lived on your own away from home before? For university or an internship? If not, then I can imagine this must be really tough but at least you have your husband to help you cope. You should know that the homesickness is normal, lots of universities have counseling services to help students cope with this but it passes. If 17 and 18 year old kids can make it through I believe you can too. We're all much tougher than we think we are.