Re: what would a good husband do in these situations…
Mouthy wife wanting her own way - Give her space, ignore her and do only the necessary things without listening or obeying her. When she gets a bit worried about the lack of attention then to sit her down and ask her to talk about why she feels she needs to be mouthy.
Wife cries all the time, about various things - I never assume that people cry over silly things. The reason why a woman will cry is that she is genuinely frustrated about something important, but when she tells me it’s about silly things I understand that there is actually a root cause that is not silly. I make it my task to find out what the root cause is. If it is a matter of not enough attention then finding out the root cause will automatically solve that one, but if on further investigation I find out something else is up then I try to work out a way to resolve the situation. Women like goals and structure in life, so if wife wants to go home then I decide a plan to send and ensure she is part of that plan, she can help prepare and save up if necessary.
Oh … It’s you? … Well if he has agreed to it, then you need to plan for it. Make sure people are aware of your plans including his parents. If you don’t drop the idea to them now then it will be hard to accept later on. Start preparing, get all the paperwork sorted out in good time. Make sure your arrangements for living are in place. Job applications and all. You need to drive the agreement to make it a reality.