What do typical Pakistani girls really want in a man?
A commanding figure or a bit of feminine side to guys?
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i guess a balanced amalgam of both. understanding actually.
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Healthy wallet and understanding :)
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understanding…love…honesty..sincerety…etc etc etc…
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from all the girls in our family what I have gathered is:
1. Tall .......
2. Good Looks.........with full head of Hair
3. Financial Security.
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- Good Looks.........with full head of Hair***
3. Financial Security
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tall...& good looks...:(
i agree with financial security....magar tall n good looks is foolish in my opinion....looks won't stay forever.....***
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tall...& good looks...:(i agree with financial security....magar tall n good looks is foolish in my opinion....looks won't stay forever.....**
I think they seem to care a lot about the guy having a full head of hair!!!
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its foolish..kya baal saari umer rahaingey…sigh
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saree umeer tu nahin rhain gayee...lakin jab shadi karain, atleast ub honay cahiyeah lol
and as far as good looks are concerned... you need to have some sort of physical attraction to the person you are going to marry.
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desi gals are showoff and gold diggers.. mostly atleast.. :)
and they like good looking tall guys with lots of money.. good careers etc
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^I don't think so. 'Mostly' is a harsh way to put it. Maybe some are but not all of us are that low life.
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Actually, I don't understand why everyone is so quick to insult desi people, women in general. Aren't you one yourself (women)? Do you really view yourself and our breed as gold diggers who want a rich, goodlooking husband and nothing beyond that? Have we really lost our values, beliefs and religious preferences to that extent that now people think that desi girls want mostly money and nothing else?
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^I don't think so. 'Mostly' is a harsh way to put it. Maybe some are but not all of us are that low life
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i agree..:)
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in GUYS…wth..
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Actually, I don't understand why everyone is so quick to insult desi people, women in general. Aren't you one yourself (women)? Do you really view yourself and our breed as gold diggers who want a rich, goodlooking husband and nothing beyond that? Have we really lost our values, beliefs and religious preferences to that extent that now people think that desi girls want mostly money and nothing else?
yes i am one that is why i know.. we surely have lost our values dear/ wait till u get a rishta if u aren't married and see what ur parents decide on a guy with a good career of one who is known for his generosity and good deeds but hardly makes enough to meets ends.. looks also mean a lot in our culture.. it is a harsh fact i know .
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azimcoat,
you must have some idea of what a 'typical Pakistani girl' is about... then use that knowledge to arrive at a reasonable answer to your own question.
on another note, really what sort of a question is this, brother? ask yourself this. each woman is different like each man is. or so we hope.
ideally, good qualities of honor, respect, care, regard, confidence, trust, equality and a genuine feeling for being with someone after you lawfully marry the person and naturally out of own accord the person marries you, as you will go or have nicely and honestly gone through the stage of courtship without betraying that person. then is perhaps when you can find out what does your own future spouse want.
because then you will be receptive to all her ideas about what she would want in her husband. like is said, not everyone is the same, ever.
same is with qualities such as powerfulness and a strong personality that is guided by integrity of character, ethics, fair principles and nothing else.
cant expect to change out of existence anybody, unless their habits are hurting someone unfairly. u cant expect to enslave your spouse.
and you certainly cant take any woman for granted. you approach someone with a sense of dignity about your own self and that other person.
hopefully, you value an educated spouse. and that takes care of countless ignorant things.
spouses ought to bring out the best in each other. in fact that is what their goal must be.
greed or superficial things or entitlements dont win anything.
open mind and heart, a faithfull and loyal thinking will help, immensely.
she and you both deserve respect and to earn that respect you remain honest to the other person, about your motive for approach.
think. if a woman who like you, went around asking this, how would you feel.
is your query is not a joke, but a real pressing question and you want a sincere answer to it, then, first of all, you must decrease the plural to a singular woman.
second, you must ask the woman who you like, and see for yourself, what she would like in you.
commanding or demanding, for a woman or a man, are absolutely not the words or their alluded effect that you would want to impact your life or the life of the person who will adapt you as a spouse or whom you will adapt as a spouse.
one thing you must know is that never ever go by what fellow men who mean to encourage you to disrespect women, without having any idea who and what kind that woman is, they say to you doubtful things about her and make you lose on a good person.
hope this helps.
best,
Dushwari
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dependz on girl 
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Agree with Sindsager. But the order is reversed. I think hot desi girls (fob or abcd) want these 3 things in this order.
- Money
- Looks
- Minimum ties with Inlaws
Ofcourse they hide this. For example they gauge the money by asking you what you do and what you studied? Doctors, lawyers engineers etc. usually make a decent amount in western countries so they are happy with asking you about your education. In Pakistan they ignore the education piece and go straight to 'monthly income'. If you are loaded and its established that you are loaded... then you get the girl of your choice in Pakistan. Seen it all mate it always works. Seen uneducated ugliest looking sons of landlords get the most educated pretty gal... and also seen the most educated guy getting a hell of a time for not being so 'rich'.
The other two come into play if you are not up on the 'rich' list. If you got looks and minimum involvement with your family - you can get lucky. This ofcourse applies to girls who are 'hot'. There is a whole different criteria for girls who are not up on the 'hot' list... and they obviously have to settle on all three.
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Actually, I don't understand why everyone is so quick to insult desi people, women in general. Aren't you one yourself (women)? Do you really view yourself and our breed as gold diggers who want a rich, goodlooking husband and nothing beyond that? Have we really lost our values, beliefs and religious preferences to that extent that now people think that desi girls want mostly money and nothing else?
thats the way it is in pakistan. they want to know how big ur house is, which area u live in, how many cars do u have bla bla.
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women dont know what they want..they are just confused