What with these posts

[chacha_Ghalib]

Re: What with these posts

@Afro-Sheen

What is going on? It seems as if every other post, some girl got “forced” to get engaged/married and is NOW looking for a way out. If its not that someone has an issue to talk to someone online. Jeez. If you are able to talk to a whole mess of strangers online @GupShup, why such a difficulty to talk to 1 person your already know.
Why do these girls not have any guts to speak out BEFORE these things happen, and not wait until the end. How can you go through a marriage when you feel nothing about the other person???

i agree…

i don’t think there is any excuse whatsoever for a person to complain about a nikah when they have signed the form unless someone was holding a gun to their head. All the protests should be done before the nikah is done but once its done just see it through. The person you got married to may not even know your parents were forcing you. Why should he/she be punished for your or your parents’ faults?

I know this paki immigrant who went to pakistan and got married to his cousin at the behest of his parents even though he waned to marry a girl in germany. After enjoying the marriage for a couple of months he returns to germany and wants to divorce the girl because his parents ‘forced’ him. Freakin idiot ruined the life of a poor girl and not just any girl… his first cousin Now the families are pissed off with each other and would likely be sour with each other forever. He could’ve just refused on the day of nikah, at least the girl wouldn’t have to live with such an idiot.