Re: What will you call this relationship
I met this Pakistani lady in a party. She is in her early 30s. Good looking and with a very HOT & Handsome 26 years old guy. The way they were dancing I thought they have SOMETHING in them. Later on while chatting with her i go to know she is married and has 8 years old son. Her husband is sleeping back at home and she is here dancing & having romance with his “banda” , Rich and very Hot and she loves this “banda” of her.
Then I met this Indian girl…27 years of age. very nice and decent i found her. One fine day i invited her to my place for dinner with her boy friend. They came… apparently they are like love birds, going out together in fact living together. When i questioned her “when are you guys getting married???” , she replied," well, we love each other so much but we dont feel that we are meant to be in marriage kind of relationship. I dont think we can get into wedlock. Marriage is a big thing so i will prefer to go for arrange marriage. That is more workable"
Somebody tell me what should we call these kind of relationships, living with one person and still having an other option for the same purpose. How on the hell you can claim to be in love with a person whom you think is not suitable to live your life with and how you can still like your husband sleeping at home and you are having affair openly with an other young good looking guy.
let me tell you about my best friend. she is single living with her boy friend and also have a daughter. when ever i ask her about getting married to her boy friend, her reply is oh my boy friend is not a husband material and i dont think i will ever marry him
its non of my business what she does in her personal life and it never affect our friendship