What will you call this relationship

Lifestyle Relationships
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^ sure is ... but then let the OP call it what it is ... why disguise it as "academic" inquiry?
there are tons of academic article available on psychology of cohabitation, as well as extramarital affairs.

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To that I agree , call a spade a spade and save lot of aggravation , name calling , metal torture , verbal abuse and fights. :)

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that IS what happens at life1…thats wat its for :hehe:

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I wonder what this bunch of so called muslims want. I have mentioned this incident because this is something new for me. I have not seen anyone doing like this. If i would want some gossip guppans love sil, mil, fil issues. I could come up with these more.spicy stories which average guppan like and even guppies too. Whenever somebody is sharing something mostly ppl jump in telling its not good to meet such ppl. Haram and halaal. Bla bla bla. How many of us meet saints everyday? We all do wrong things sometimes in life. If everyone at gs is pakka sucha muslimaan then it is not even halaal to talk to gher mehram. Dont talk about ur in laws dats called ghebat. Dont stalk guys here, dont talk about sexual relationship. And change name of this forum to "momin forum" . i am an average muslim, an average human. I meet good ppl amd bad ppl also. I admire good ones and feel bad for bad ones. I dont judge ppl yet curious to know what may be reasons of their wrong deeds. I do commit mistakes and i regret and ask for forgiveness from my God. So thats enough for me. Why the hell everyone is talking about same thing. If you cannot speak good then keep your cake holes shut.

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we shdnt talk abt the third person , every1 shd talk abt their own lives , to err is human ,to forgive divine n jst ignore thm bcoz its there issue with the creator , ask mercy for every1 end of story :chai:

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I call it ' none of me freaking Business' :)

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Psychologically speaking these people are weak, in a society that is driven by materialistic possessions and looks and the young fast and crazy life, these people are sheep which follow the bad flock. But how long can they live fake lives? One day someone us going to get hurt badly. What goes around comes around.

They have deep embedded issues of not being able to love the one they are with, perhaps they didn't get enough hugs from there mother as a kid.

Either way they are selfish, self absorbed and self loving. You know they say you can judge a person by the friends he/she keeps.

There's your psychology like it or hate it. Enjoy.

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they want nothing from u thats for sure.

and calling every1 out there "so called muslims" makes us feel better about ourselves no? what is super-duper muslim an average muslim and a so called muslim? assplain plz.

oh and us guppy guppans always love to know whats going on in other people's "pants" rather than mil sil bil fil. mil sil dil aint juicy enough sachi.

whats wrong in your or my books might not be wrong in others books. if they r happy with thier life no matter how disturbing we think it is let them be as long as its not effecting our wonderful and pious lives in any way

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:smack:

A simple question was asked.

**These are relationships of convenience and meant for mutual pleasure.
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P.S. Somehow OP knew her husband was sleeping at home.
These are not just random people. OP also knows their ages and the woman’s son age in first example.

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again i dont understand why ppl are taking it personally. Ok kali billi i said everything for you and only for you. Now sue me on that. Keep sniffing pants of others in fact i dont mind if you lick a little too. I would say what i want to say. La la la la

[mod]have some civility for yourself and for others[/mod]

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r u sure its new thing for you :cb:

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well sheheryarkhan no wait........ oops...... qtchick, no1 took it personally i think u have some comprehension problems so try to fix that.

and i kinda like what u said after that u have some guts oh and its pretty clear who likes to sniff and lick pants, specially of people who are having extramarital affairs to boot. keep it up love u might even get better at it, one day my dear one day...................

mmmmkaytxbye

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I think it is called compartmentalised thinking ... very bad as well - morally low.

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I think we should give OP benefit of the doubt that this question was asked out of curiosity.

I often wonder about some stuff Ive seen or heard about lately in terms of relationships and it annoys to me a certain level that we don't see loyal relationships that were witnessed in our parents' generation. I wish that loyalty and simplicity existed in our time (I am in no way pointing at someone's imaan etc. just making a general comment about how messed up relationships are in this day and time).

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let me tell you about my best friend. she is single living with her boy friend and also have a daughter. when ever i ask her about getting married to her boy friend, her reply is oh my boy friend is not a husband material and i dont think i will ever marry him

its non of my business what she does in her personal life and it never affect our friendship

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:mirch:

But so far you have two people doing this . :cb: