I think many of these Islamic rulings are meant not so much to implement them, but more to so that general public realizes the seriousness of zina, or stealing, or murder. But then I'm not an Islamic scholar, and Umar (R), after all, DID implement these rules in his time, even so far as whipping his own child to death for alcohol use!
After all ,Islam does talk about stoning adulteres, and cutting out the hands of thieves and the heads of murders- and that's something we, as Muslims, cannot deny. These punishments seem awfully harsh, and yet it is written as part of Islam as wearing a hijab is- it is one of the more perplexing aspects of Islam. Nonetheless, one things is clear- THE CHILD SHOULD BE TREATED JUST AS FAIRLY AS ANY OTHE CHILD!
"JI NAHI ON ORTON KO JU ZINAKARI KRTI HAIN BACHA PAIDA KERNY KI BHI IJAZAT NAHI HONI CHAHIY"
Jab patta hy ky aik twaif apni baiti ko twaif hi bannay gi tu os ko is ki ijazat hi kion hai?
In orton ko patta hota hy ke aik bnada shadishuda hai osy kion phansati hai? Phir os ky jaaiz bachon ka haq najaizon ko dy do wah.
Pehly ye fairnes os ki bivi or jaaiz bachon ku tu do. Integrity and faithfulness is required in all walks of life if not only in marraige for a man. Aik faithful orat shadi ky baad puri tawju ghar shohar or bachon per daiti hai aik dosri orat jis ko patta hy ye shadi shuda merd hai os per dory dalti or phansati hai shadi ky baghyr jismani taluq or bacha pyda kerti hy. Aziyat kon sahy gi?faithful orat os orat ky liy jis ne aik bivi ky haq per daka dala kisi ki amanat main khiyanat ki os ki churi ki os ky liy hamdardian inammat wah. Aisi oladon ko isi liy muashry main maqam nahi diya jata ky aisi ortain kuch sochain bura kam kerny se pehly. Magar ye giroh is qadar mazboot hu chuka hai ky baqaida blackmail ker ky ye merdon se raqmain aintha kerti hain or phir bhi mazloom:D.