I think my stubbornness helped me, never asked them for any thing.
I was able to experience things what my siblings missed.
If you really want to hear a funny story.
I always used to say “I never accept/took any thing from my family, I did life at my own”
One day I was sitting at a coffee house out in the open, eating break fast and reading a very thick technical book.
Usually in working hrs no one is around. that day a Chines CEO or some thing came sat there.
He started talking to me and ask what I was reading. And then what I do etc.
Then he asked me what uni. I went to I said none.
you know nJgal what he said ??
He said “good genes thats why” lol
since then I don’t really say “I did it at my own” lolzzzzzz father did help in way:salute:. if you know what I mean.