What to do

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Re: What to do

@Difficulty

1. Correct, this must have an entrance and exit that is separate from the family although a best is a separate apartment or extension from house
2. Correct
3. We would be getting a loan from an Islamic Bank which scholars have agreed that you can
4. Yes that is correct and she uses the money we have for gifts etc and I do not have an issue

I will post about this as thre are a few things that have happened but her behaviour has been consistent

The baby is due in less than 3 months.

Here’s what you do now: tell her what you want and that’s it. Let her scream and swear all she wants. She is testing your limits and you should have told her a while ago when enough was enough. Don’t be afraid of her reaction. Just be very firm and don’t repeat yourself. Don’t let her whining, evil looks, tears, and threats affect you in any way. You really have to act like you are done with her. Tell her if she wants a home with you, she has to act like your wife first. If she can’t do that, you can’t be much of a husband to her either. I don’t think she has realized how blessed she is but once she sees your changed attitude, she will start to miss you and hopefully that will make her appreciate you more. The best thing you can do right now is ignore her whining as if it doesn’t affect you. You need to stop being scared of her reaction.