What to do

[Difficulty]

Re: What to do

@Captain_Obvious

After reading your posts, a few things come to mind…you can verify this with your teacher(s):

She keeps bringing up Islamic rights etc.

1. Her right to a separate accommodation can be fulfilled if you provide a even a certain area of the house where she can have her privacy.
2. If that is not enough, then a rental place that is physically separate from where your mom lives would be sufficient. Your duty is not to give her a separate house.
3. It is unIslamic of her to ask you to get into a loan on interest to provide a house for her according her whims.
4. Her maintenance does not include gifts for her family, though it is good to give her some allowance according to your capacity and not her whims

1. Correct, this must have an entrance and exit that is separate from the family although a best is a separate apartment or extension from house
2. Correct
3. We would be getting a loan from an Islamic Bank which scholars have agreed that you can
4. Yes that is correct and she uses the money we have for gifts etc and I do not have an issue

@Muzna

Other than her own place, I wonder what else it is that she feels to be lacking in the relationship.
Granted there may be mental health issues at play, nobody just decides that they don’t like a situation overnight. There have to be things that led up to this point.
Are you able to step away from the situation and see things from her perspective? Can you tell us what you think might be making her unhappy?

Obviously we get that she wants the same freedom that she had pre-marriage and that’s a lesson there that she will have to learn. But what other expectations of hers’ have not been met?

I will post about this as thre are a few things that have happened but her behaviour has been consistent

@Paheli00

@Difficulty When is the baby due?

The baby is due in less than 3 months.