Hello ppl! Being a regular reader on this forum, just thought to share my problem here, hoping to get some good advises & suggestions.
So, I am a girl, turning 27 next month. I am still single. There was a guy among our relative with whom my dad was desperate to get me married to, but that couldn’t happen, mainly because there were many reasons i rejected him & declined to marry him, & so his family backed off. And this entire thing took good 5-6 years or so when they finally backed off. Anyways! That’s history now.
I am a working girl & there have been many people who has approached me so that they can send their parents to our home with proposal. There’s this guy who i know for the last one year. From the time till i know him till today he has been insistent that i should talk to my parents about him so that he can send his parents to our home with proposal. With the help of my cousin sister, my dad was informed about him & that he is interested to send proposal to our home. But the problem is that, my dad isn’t open to welcome anyone to come to our home with any proposal. In the past also, people who were interested, they were never given any chance to come to our home with proposal. And the reason behind his this behaviour, let me be honest & open here that, he is a drunkard 
:(. He has a habit of looking at everything in wrong colours.
Many times he keeps on taunting me with talks like, look at yourself, within few years your hair will turn white but still you aren’t married. I tell him that, that’s because of you. Because you aren’t serious about me & my future. Then he tells me that, since you are so desperate, then go ahead & marry whoever you want & then he tells me that you can’t do that also, because you don’t have guts & i tell him like, wow, you are encouraging me to elope with a guy! :S
So, now it has become every day situation at home. I am just totally fed up. I just don’t understand what to do. Sometimes I wish to just go & live separately on my own but then i think about my mom & sisters & iam not able to do that.
And with this guy, on this 28th June, it would be a year that i know him, & so he tells me that, by this 28th June, if he isn’t given a date to come to our home, then he is going to go away from my life forever :(. Whatever it is, but he is a nice guy & i do like him & i wouldn’t want to lose him. He isn’t aware about my dad’s drinking habit. All he says is that iam non-serious about him & about getting married & tells me that if he isn’t given a date, he would think of me as cheat & fraud & move on with his life.
What you people suggest? What should i do?
