Thanks for the feedback y'all. ......I really must say that alot of the females are being very judgemental towards me........ The truth is, you don't know everything I've put up with for the last 8 years...... he's been a jerk, lied, and made many scenes in public...... I have onlyyy been there for him accepting all his faults big and small...... if wanting to avoid public arguements makes me a snob.... then i suppose i am.....
Look, regardless of whether other females are soft-petaling their remarks or not, you just said it yourself: you've put up with so much BS over the last 8 years. And you're not even married yet! Imagine how issues will multiply when you have to share home, body, and soul with someone.
Too many girls have this sick emotional codependence---they see themselves as martyrs (oh, I did so much for him, I put up with so much, etc., etc.) Is it not crystal clear that this is not the foundation of a healthy relationship?
Dump him.