what to do

when your hubby dont respond u on some issues
dont respond on your words,talks???

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I feel like smacking my head evry time come into lifestyle forum

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well every person is different. if he's not listening then depending on his nature u can try different tips n things to make him pay attention n listen to u.

I feel like smacking your head too :hmmm:

what do u mean amir?

^ LOL.

Suhaina,

You're post is not clear. What do you mean he is not responding? Do you mean that he doesn't respond to your phone calls and emails? If so, then you need to keep in mind that some people are not good at conversing on the phone or through e-mail.

Now if he does not respond to you when you both are having a face to face discussion, then that is a serious problem. I would suggest that you sit down and make him listen to you. Tell him that you have something important to discuss with him and that you need him to give you his full attention. And then tell him that you feel that he does not respond to you when you talk to him and that you feel that communication is necessary in a marriage. And ask him if something is troubling him and listen to what he has to say. But this discussion needs to take place if you are going to be living with him soon.

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Turn off the TV.

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Leave him alone...he may be angry or upset and doesnt want to say something he will regret later. He will eventually come around and you will find out what the problem is.

When Im angry or upset, I dont talk. The world can come crashing down but I wont talk. LOL.

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no calls or email but some particulars issues or words i talked but he didnt respond

i dont know why..strange behaviour i didnt understand

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He is naraaz.

Suhaina, your problem is that you are not specific enough and we are not mind-readers or psychics. How can we even try to understand what his problem is if you don't even tell us what "particular issues or words" you said to him. We have no idea if those "particular issues or words" are serious or offensive because **once again **you are unclear.

As Psquared said.....perhaps he could be upset about something. Are you talking to him A LOT these days? If so, then perhaps you should give him a break and leave him alone for a while. Even married couples need a break from each other, it's healthy.

But if he is behaving like this all the time, then you should talk to him gently about this problem. But until you don't tell us what "particular issues and words" you said to him....it's hard to determine why he reacted in such a fashion.

You’re not even married laRki :smack:

Khair, if he doesn’t respond, it just means that he is busy fantasizing himself as a jedi knight fighting a darklord such as Darth Sidious on the edge of a 7000 storey building on planet Naboo just at the same time as a war has broken out between the huku system and the yuku galaxy.

Nothing to worry about. Just get him a mango lassi.

Hey Nikki…at least a Star Wars fantasy is better than some other ahem… fantasies, LOL LOL LOL LOL :smiley:

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Cos people open up such immature and obvious threads every time i log-in.

I mean if some people have probs in obviously clear solvable lil issues then i wonder what the hell rest of your life is like.

not even a single girl.. stop and read your comment.. :D

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Suhaina we know you are the* cousin* you wrote about earlier :halo:

*Try to talk with him with issues which he may find important.
*

A professor was telling students his research on birds.

He tells them a particular bird was gay!

He placed male bird in a cage with a female bird.

He observed for many months and made a video 24 hours.

After several months he found no interest from male bird to go to female bird despite he fed him stimulating full protein diet.

He then placed a male bird in the cage and first male bird got happy and started dancing.

So he told his student the first male bird was gay!

A little boy got up and asked:

Sir! did you try to change the female bird?:)

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You’re not even married laRki :smack:
i m married bus rukhsati nahi hai lol

i didnt get

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he is coming to pak from ausralia next month i,ll talk to him..