when your hubby dont respond u on some issues dont respond on your words,talks???
Then sweetheart you immediately stop nagging him.
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do the same when he talks to you next time:D
ok im kidding…um actually im not… :halo:
on a more serious note:
dont insist on him answering you…the most annoying thing in the world is a person that nags.
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Suhaina, you need to work on making your posts more clear. Yes, as Jaanwar said, if someone is not responding to you, just walk away and give the person a break. Maybe he doens't want to be nagged.
At the same time, it also depends what "issues and words" you said to him. If you said something offensive or ridiculous to him....then perhaps that is why he chose not to respond to you. But you haven't specified what you have said to him. And we also don't know how often you talk to him. Perhaps he needs a break once in a while. And if your fiance is sitting in Australia whereas you're all the way in Pakistan...then obviously the HUGE DISTANCE is going to impact the communication.
Suhaina, you need to work on making your posts more clear. Yes, as Jaanwar said, if someone is not responding to you, just walk away and give the person a break. Maybe he doens't want to be nagged.
At the same time, it also depends what "issues and words" you said to him. If you said something offensive or ridiculous to him....then perhaps that is why he chose not to respond to you. But you haven't specified what you have said to him. And we also don't know how often you talk to him. Perhaps he needs a break once in a while. And if your fiance is sitting in Australia whereas you're all the way in Pakistan...then obviously the HUGE DISTANCE is going to impact the communication.
its not some particular issues actually some time he didnt even rpely my(how are you) and some time he reply on all rude words.
Leave him alone...he may be angry or upset and doesnt want to say something he will regret later. He will eventually come around and you will find out what the problem is.
When Im angry or upset, I dont talk. The world can come crashing down but I wont talk. LOL.
^ I 2nd that!
its not some particular issues actually some time he didnt even rpely my(how are you) and some time he reply on all rude words.
Here are some questions to think about, Suhaina.
1) Where does your fiance live?
2) Was your marriage arranged? Did he want to marry you? Or was he pressured to marry you?
3) If you are calling him too much...........PLEASE STOP! Larki ko larkay k peechay nahin bhaagna chahiye. The guy should run after you. Give him a chance to miss you. Give him a break. Don't call or email him for a few days. Let him call you. Neediness and clingy/chipkoo type behavior can turn people off.
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Suhaina, there is something about you that reminds me of Disturbed Angel.
Or may be I am crazy.
Suhaina, there is something about you that reminds me of Disturbed Angel.
Or may be I am crazy.
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Halwa**...........Suhaina's story reminds me a little bit of her cousin's story. Suhaina's cousin was to be married to her brother who lives in Australia (I think...either way he lives abroad). And her brother had no desire to marry her cousin but he told his parents that he will marry wherever they wish. And he also was interested in a non-muslim girl. Suhaina's cousin wants to marry Suhaina's brother in spite of the fact that she knows he's not romantically interested in her and has also picked up som non-halal habits in the west.
See, what I mean. Doesn't Suhaina's story seem similar to her cousin's story. Now it's possible that these two stories are completely separate......but then there is also a likelihood that the two stories could simply be "one story".....if you get my drift, Halwa. (wink wink)
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Ladies c'monnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Suhaina's hubby is the guy who is in the West having a good time, and wanting to get away from her. Remember!!!
She likes to speak in roundabout ways.
Ladies c'monnnnnnnnnnnnnn. Suhaina's hubby is the guy who is in the West having a good time, and wanting to get away from her. Remember!!!
She likes to speak in roundabout ways.
I know SU....that's the point that I was "eluding to" in my above post. LOL :)
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Who cares if its the same person? Just give her the advice she needs and move on, instead of putting her on the spot. She's obviously going through a tough time right now jeez
Who cares if its the same person? Just give her the advice she needs and move on, instead of putting her on the spot. She's obviously going through a tough time right now jeez
Okay so where is your piece of advice for her?
Halwa...........Suhaina's story reminds me a little bit of her cousin's story. Suhaina's cousin was to be married to her brother who lives in Australia (I think...either way he lives abroad). And her brother had no desire to marry her cousin but he told his parents that he will marry wherever they wish. And he also was interested in a non-muslim girl. Suhaina's cousin wants to marry Suhaina's brother in spite of the fact that she knows he's not romantically interested in her and has also picked up som non-halal habits in the west.
See, what I mean. Doesn't Suhaina's story seem similar to her cousin's story. Now it's possible that these two stories are completely separate......but then there is also a likelihood that the two stories could simply be "one story".....if you get my drift, Halwa. (wink wink)
OIC, thanks for the info.
Suhaina my dear, I'm very sorry to hear this disturbing news. Its very sad, do you really want to marry this man and go to australia knowing that he has already forsaken you for others?
There are some boys here in the UK who have been forced to marry their cousins from pakistan upon their parents insistence, whilst they have girls here that they want to marry but cannot.
So they marry their cousins like good little boys and when they come back, they resume relations with girlfriend, import the wife, continue relations girlfriend, causing wife misery. Its a troublesome and hurtful situation to be in for the wife mostly.
Okay so where is your piece of advice for her?
If he's strange, end it. Long distance relationships with strange people aren't worth it. And if he's not communicating with her, end it
its not some particular issues actually some time he didnt even rpely my(how are you) and some time he reply on all rude words.
I ask him directly.
If he is really happy with the wedding?
If he has a girlfriend or wanted to marry someone else?
Must clear these issues politely with a concern and sincerity. Without being emotional.
Its about at least two lives.
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dont nag. say what you have to ONE time and back off. he has heard you. he will respond when he is ready. (thats my experience)
Here are some questions to think about, Suhaina.
1) Where does your fiance live?
2) Was your marriage arranged? Did he want to marry you? Or was he pressured to marry you?
3) If you are calling him too much...........PLEASE STOP! Larki ko larkay k peechay nahin bhaagna chahiye. The guy should run after you. Give him a chance to miss you. Give him a break. Don't call or email him for a few days. Let him call you. Neediness and clingy/chipkoo type behavior can turn people off.
he is not a stranger at all..its a luv marrige hehe "sharmaing"
i know yr point of cipkoo but u know what if i will not call him or some thing then he will say to me u dont care about me..u didnt even check i m alive or not ..u didnt miss me
its very difficult to handle guys lol
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OIC, thanks for the info.
Suhaina my dear, I'm very sorry to hear this disturbing news. Its very sad, do you really want to marry this man and go to australia knowing that he has already forsaken you for others?
my husband is living in paksitan..he sent by his company to do some course type cheze which is getting over next month.he cant dare go for other girs i told him very clear that i m not one of those idiot girls who will cry or want him back on such situations..
ager woh ik k peche jaye ga tu main 5 ko apne peche lagwoaongiii....and trust me thsi threat is quite usefulll...he saw every other girls like a siister after heraing this :D
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Halwa...........Suhaina's story reminds me a little bit of her cousin's story. Suhaina's cousin was to be married to her brother who lives in Australia (I think...either way he lives abroad).
no austrlia bro is in london