What to do when ur man......

Ok now i have a serious problem…so please advice…
Lately i have been involved in a series of pm with this guy… So we have been pming each other like long long pmsss for the past god knows 3 years.. … but recently he has been acting a bit weirdooo…u know wat i mean.. he is being such a “jerk”…he doesn’t pm me anymore.. or even if he does he would not tell me about his daily routine alot..he would not even bother asking me how iam doing.. this and tat… so i wanted to ask u guys..I mean like wat conclusion should i take from his idiotic behavior?
So overall wat to do when ur man does not pm u long enough? does it sound right?

Since i heard tat u guys are soo good in giving advice.. plz help me here .. iam in desperate need of help :bummer:

Ok for that i will have to do research..in all the advicery threads..then i will give you advice..as i understand you have a serious problemOOO!

Re: What to do when ur man…

^ ^ coco please help me.. i don’t want tat man to go behind me and pm other kurisss.. u know wat i mean :bummer:

Re: What to do when ur man…

You and him have been PMing for THREE years. :hayaa:

Did your MSN go on a vacation or your phone lines vanish in the air? :confused:

Dude had some patience with PMing.

I'm hoping here that you would not be a "pest" to him....

And being a guy myself and what I've seen, normally a guyz does it when he wants to cut "her" out... simple. Sorry if I'm too blunt to say it but what you should do is to ask him seriously just one question. If he still wants to go along with you or no? I hope by saying "no" you'll actually mean the breakup! :(

Yeah straight up.. the fact is that he is very cheapo… he doesn’t call me cause it costs him long distance charges..

he is usually not on msn.. he is again too cheap to get an internet connection so he goes to internet cafe to pm me..

Well he says he loves pming me so i guess iam used to it now as well.. :bummer:

but how should i find out the reason of him not pming me properly?

The man will never say a direct, “get out of my life, I am tired of you” thing to the woman.

How he gets this point across is when he starts “getting super busy”.

PF, I hope you understand what we’re trying to tell you here.

p.s. Tell who the Guppy is and I’ll tell you if he’s PMing me :wink:

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You have used all the superlatives to describe his personality, he is being jerk , he is a weirdo , he is behaving like an idiot, you have fear that he is PMing other girls behind your back. If he deserve so much praise then either you are in denial or you are being too sensitive.
Calm down take an inventory where you two stand , how far ahead is your relationship. did you two make any lifelong commitment ? How can you be intimate enough just on the basis of PMs, how can you judge someone just on the basis of PMs ? What if he has been lying about him and has been putting a show just to have some fun and what if he does the same with many many kurian ?

On top of all those superlatives he is very cheapo. :smack:

Re: What to do when ur man......

Congratulations - the man has moved on, time for you to follow the lead and while you are at it, wise up. Cheers.

lol .. YES

Re: What to do when ur man......

hm... may be he lost his interest and moved to someone else.
but the real question is are u interested in him? and does he know about this?

may be he just wanted to be frnds with u, and not any kinda serious relationship.

after 3 years.. i don’t think he would want to break up… :bummer: that will break my heart in 1000 pieces.. u know wat i mean :crying:

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Now what if the guy read this thread!?

he might think she is talking bout someone else :hmmm:

Mirchi… but u seee… Love is blind… love doesn’t see personality or anything.. it is like water waves.. can flow anywhere.. and beside.. “dil gandhay per bi to asakta hay na” :frowning:

so now wat do u say i should do? :bummer:

IF that was not the objective here :hmmm:

after 3 years of long term commitment move on? how is tat possible :(

Are u serious? are u getting any pms from this guy.. who writes u quite long pms? plzzzz don’t do this to me.. :crying:

Says one of the two parties to the incident.

A person staring at your beautiful smile and making you uncomfortable could actually be looking at that piece of spinach stuck between your teeth. You know what I mean?

keep yourself preoccupied with other things. So many things out there for you to do rather then occupy your time with this.

I know I know…easier said then done :bummer: