The rishta process has made you cynical . Having a family and person to come home to is a very very basic and natural thing to desire. One qu UK question is do you scare ppl? You are a quite qualified and that might scare many guys to have somebody in a control position . I think it is a great idea to look at that these websites and contact some rishta aunties. Depending on where u live u should find somebody that has success. Love need not happen on the first look. The type of love that is needed for marriage happens gradually after marriage. You heard a gazillion times MARRIAGE IS COMPROmise. Find some basic things like somebody who has taqwa, good morals, a paying, respectable job, and decent family background. Money styles is imp. Is he a cheapo? Or does he throw away money at every gadget and doesn’t have a dime to his name? Inshallah parents or siblings can be very helpful in a weeding out a potential candidate. if he took the effort to visit that means something. Tickets are not cheap. Farting when you are on a highway a s can’t excuse yourself is sometime unavoidable. Best not to eat daal and other gassy foods when visiting a potential rishta.