Re: What to do in this situation?
I agree with AS!!
AP this dude need to have some back bone.
I would tell this guy to stop actin like a frikkin pu**y and get a life!
Stop actin like a girl, did you ever have a father figure or role model in your life that was a male? if you did you wouldn't be actin like a freak.
LMAO
our lil friend here seems in need of a girl's affection even though she's married. what a freak, he seems to beleive he deserves any different treatment from that girl. And on top of that, he wants her to still be his friend, maybe pamper him, give him another chance.... what a girly-guy!
How Would You Feel??
Wouldnt you feel cheated. They ruined your life, they leave you peaceless..would you want them to be peaceful? Wud you still want them to be happy by making you unhappy?
did you ever think maybe you were the only one who thought so much of that friendship, and maye she never even liked you as much as you did her, but you wanted to keep beleiving differently?
You need a shrink!
Please note : 'Your' and 'You' is based on your friend
Your thinking is worrying....the end point is that she is now married..leave her alone..if i was the girl I wudve changed my numbers by now..
if shes meant 2 be urs, then u will get her in many years 2 come..but if not..then live and let live...
she obv didnt love u enuff 2 wait 4 u...and i dnt blame her..she must have had her own reasons..
what will u achieve by getting revenge?
u r asking the same question in different words each time......
THINK...if u do that..what will u get?
- Will she come back 2 u??? NO
- Will u get badua? YES
- Will she hate u 4ever? YES
- Will u break house? Maybe...
Life is not a bollywood movie...get a grip and move on.......life isnt that long 2 waste like this
Good luck! and I really hope u dnt ruin that poor girls life, I think shes got more than her fair share after her parents dying.....what face will you show to God if you ruin her life???!!!
TO: Chik Biryani
''Dude , no one is treating this as a Joke as you claim .. yeah? ... we at GS are taking the time to tell you and your GUY .... that you two need a grip on your emotions and actions .... ''
-Read The person who was advicing to do Suicide.
''whats the meaning of friendship? **would you want your wife to maintain friendship with her ex?* ... friendship is earned through mutual respect ... look at yourself .. what are you doing? you are DEMANDING friendship as if its her farz to be friends with you .. ''*
The Guy posed here this question in the past when thier frnship was good, she promised even if she got married she would not break frinship with such a nice person like him.
She Also use to always assert to him that she wants a 'broad-minded' type guy.
-You answer one thing, from my earlier post, i wrote she once tried kiling herself after a fight when the guy said its finshed. The guy responded prompltly to best of his ability to alert her guardians and get her treatment. On inquery asking why she did it. She said she cud tolerate the loss of Love, but cud not tolerate frienship. future similar incidents of the guy not giving her attention or avoiding her, resulted in her feeling seriusly rejected and upset. To which the guy always responded to- just because he didnt want her to have tears in her eyes'
Now Let See, When the Guy was in this just one needy situation-isnt it obliged in her case to do the same-even if not for humnaity sake-atleast for how he did for her?
*if i was in that girls place , I would have surely had you boxed down by my husband if you even dared to harm me in any way... you are just thinking evil , nothing else ... she is clearly ignoring you , feeling uncomfortable with you trying to keep in touch with her .... she HAS moved on .. you are no longer a somebody in her life ... yeah? *
Firstly,who is talking about violence or harm, I personally would not advice myself or the Guy to do somthing like that.
Secondly if ever required the guy is more than capable to defend himself.
Thirdly- the guy is sorry, but he feels he has done so much for her and given emotional support, he does actually have right to not mcuh but a grain of affection that so desperatly craves.
If she has moved on, and looking at all thier past interactions, he feels it is cheating on her part to reduce him to a nobody-person who shed wudnt care a damn if killed himself.
*accept that and move on . you being emotional and all doesnt suit a guy at all ... you will lose the last bit of respect she might have had in her heart for you with all these herkatein ... *
-You Talk of Respect: Do you think she currently has some anyway??
-emotions- guy is working hard on eradicating his emotional nature.
*this may sound rude to you , but trust me , I am telling you this with experience , you will not be able to harm that girl or her marriage , she was your friend before marriage .. she hasnt done anything to let her husband down after marriage .. so let it go ... *
*-*If her husbnad was broad-minded (which hes clearly not), or if she had told her husbnad she had 4 bf.s before him; he probably would not have been able to harm her.
But he seems to be typical posseieve pakistani husbnad who she lied to abut her past, and is being fooled by her who is acting to him asif he is the only one she was ever atracted to.
The Guy knows for sure the husbnad would appreciate such information.
Anyhow-if not then what is there to loose in telling him?
Who is trying to harm her, or her husbnad.
He doesnt crave for her marriage to break, for her to be killed, or to end up on the streets etc.
All the Ex wants to do is tell him something, he really wants to tell, and probably somthing the husbnad would appreciate to know.
What he does or doesnt do with her is up to him. Maybe he doesnt mind so that she has had 4 bf.s
Is just informing him that such a bad thing..?
Although the Ex- is somwhat is defintely concerned of any recoil negative effects that may incur to him as result of disclosure.
Could there be any consequecnes for him/
All comments except immature types appreciated.
The ex- has been at unrest for a whole year, and after trying evrything else, this is the only action that he could now think of would bring relaxtaion and peace.
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Dont think anyone is going to say Yes go ahead and tell her husband...so if your waiting 4 that answer..doubt u will get it!
No matter what you say, every1 is going 2 say the same thing....Move on.....u have no right 2 ruin her life.....and i dont tink her husband will 'appreciate' u telling him.....u r no1 for them, u dnt exist! Move on and dont waste ur life
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…or maybe You should tell the husband and if the husband has ur share of backbone he’ll blow your friend’s brains out instead 
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^:lifey: Well this is justice our style 
where where you until now???
Hiding ! …like i’m gonna be now when ppl come gunning for me after that remark 
Re: What to do in this situation?
dont worry me and SU protect such ppl. we just a PM away 
PM is a PM away …
i’ll keep that in mind meanwhile keep an eye on this thread…
To Amir shazad and Laiba:
***LMAO
*our lil friend here seems in need of a girl's affection even though she's married. what a freak, he seems to beleive he deserves any different treatment from that girl. And on top of that, he wants her to still be his friend, maybe pamper him, give him another chance.... what a girly-guy!
Im sorry if this sounds rude, but now i have to come out of my formal nature.
Yeh the guy is me. Happy
If you think im a freak and this is freaky, why the hell r u reading my post then.
I can understand the Ami shazad guy mocking me cos hes bloke.
But you, what the hell do u think u r. U dont have any probs in ur life, you never cried or threw a illogical tantrum at anyone. Get The F.Out of here, u no one.
To Amir.
Bruv, i aint no pu...y, yeh. And Nor is your obscene bakwaas appreciated in the forums.
You just act tough behind that the cover of that monitor of urs yeh, come to my door-step and Il show u whos man by Breaking ur bull....ing face.
As if you have never felt desperate or helpless for somthing in your life.
I aint no nerd or wuusy, i live my lfe do my things. Its this one thing in my life that is a thorn. I wish i wasnt so attached to her..anyhow.
You both coming here and laughin at other peoples problems, what does it say about yourselves.
I just aw there some mature peers here, and came here for some advice, thats all.
No Sympathy.
Anyway-
i see people r getting fedup of my stories.
Thanks all for advice.
I think ill just go ahead and tell her husbnad evrything.
Ive asked many paki guys what they wud want me to do in this situation. Every single one told, me that theyr posseive of thier wives. They all assume and want thier wives to be and only have been thiersd, so would extremly appreciate if told the truth they wives had lied to them.
End Of Topic.
Thanks.
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Dude you need to rough your self a little, such long posts ????
dude whats with that??
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LAME
Re: What to do in this situation?
Yeh man, cool ill post shorter this time.
But you, what the hell do u think u r. U dont have any probs in ur life, you never cried or threw a illogical tantrum at anyone. Get The F.Out of here, u no one.
so long as you admit you're throwin an illogical tantrum :P
get real.
to be honest , your GUY seems to be a loser and unfortunately he also seems to have loser friends like you who help him turn into bigger loser !
if she had friends before marriage , its HER personal life , nothing to do with you … who are you to go around telling everyone what happened in her life ???
listen dude , you and your friend will be the only ones at loss … you cant see her happy and so are looking for excuses to harm her … hoping in your heart that her hubby will throw her out of the house when he finds out she had BF 's !!!
you know , if you think we are all giving you immature answers when we tell you not to do stupid things .. then trust me 95% of the world wll give you the same immature answers …
I hope Allah mian teaches you both a lesson that will bring both you guys senses back to the right path !
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Inshallah...well said Chkn biryani...tink we shud all pray 4 the poor girl now
Inshallah...well said Chkn biryani...tink we shud all pray 4 the poor girl now
Tabu , inshallah nothing will happen to the girl , this loser will think he has achieved the world by telling her hubby ... max , the hubby might ask her whats the story ... she will tell him .. they might have a little argument , things will get clear .. and they will both live happily ever after inshallah ...
its not like the girl had an affair after marriage ! this loser is just making a mountain out of a mole!
but surely Allah mian will teach him a good lesson inshallah for his evil intents and deeds ...
know whats lame in disclosing to her hsubnad.
And which bums r trying to scare me her husband wil blow my brains. Am i kid, or have i portayed myself as a 5 foot skinky, shy nerd?
Hope i havnt.
Anyways-logically speeking why wud he want to blow *my *brains out?
I tell him in a sensible normal manner.
He shud be angry at his 'wife' not me.
Ok i have been accused me being 'girly'.
Fine let me revrse the roles by making 'her need me'. Sghe will require me to be nice and kind to her, when she knows will tell her huuby. Ofcourse when he throws her out, il need to be the Man to secure her.
yep thst right, im goona do that, because im a man and i feel like it.