what to do in this situation then

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ok..2 pages…good…lets have more :khumar:

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So basically you have two choices… You can choose to play it like the MIL by trying to manipulate the situation to your benefit or you could choose just not to be part of the politics and stay honest and ignore the negatives and concentrate on the positives of the situation. She can’t make you feel guilty when you know you did nothing wrong.

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Works like a charm. :slight_smile:

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ok so i understand this a little bit… infact in case of dawats, these desi people have a habbit of asking " bahu nay kia pakaya" and at that time u’ll get to hear, no she didnt cook anything :frowning: however u’ve been doing all the cleaning, and washing and cutting stuff sigh

but nevertheless, the best solution in such scenarios is become DEAF… though it’s difficult but 1. Dont feel guilty 2. Be Deaf

Zindagi asan ho jaey gi haha me trying

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nahi pakanay deti tou phir bhi zabardasti pakkaya karo aur kaha karo ke nahi maine apko apne haath ki khila khila ke maarna hai :stuck_out_tongue: :smiley:

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On a serious note nadz…why do u wanna cook? if your MIL wants to go through the hassle of cooking herself let her do it…u enjoy that time of yours…outing,shopping etc…tumko paka pakaya khana mil raha hai enjoy karo larki…once she is fed up with cooking all the time she will ask you herself to cook.

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agree with blessed