what to do in this situation then

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Re: what to do in this situation then

@Sara516

I think alot of you are missing the point, or maybe its just me who sees this?

Some people use this as a manipulation tactic–do all the chores and then complain to 1. make themselves look good (like the martyr they are) and 2. make the other person look bad (like a lazy person who cannot do anything).

So yes, on one hand I would be worried because with some people you just don’t know that if u do or don’t do something today, tomorrow they will throw it back at you to make you look bad.

This.
You can integrate yourself in the housework slowly so you’re not blamed for not helping around enough later on.
If that’s not the case and she really doesn’t like your cooking, then see if you can change your cooking up a bit to suit her taste (no pun intended).