Re: what to do in this situation then
hehehhe… so whoz salans are not good? The ones made by u or the ones made by ur MIL?
BTW my MIL is the sameeee exacttttt wayyyy… (I am not married yet but I have cooked for dawaats for them before.. I knowww arghhh I just cant help being nice to these people geezzzzzz)
Last time, I made chicken karhai for a dawaat at my SIL’s house and when my MIl came in, she headed straight for the kitchen. She started shaking the stuff and stirring everything. Arghhhh I get frustrated when ppl try to check my cooking work because I know exactly how to cook.. I have been doing it since I was 8.
Plus she started telling me tht I shouldnt have put water in it… arggghhh I never put water in it normally but she always cooks watery salaans so I decided not to make mine too ghara (thick) so she wont say anything..
ARghhh if I add water its hell and if I dont then its still hell.
(lol.. hell is an exaggeration but I do get frustrated easily.)
but yaa… I just nod my head and go along with it… hahah or sometimes I just walk off. I text my mom to call me (my phone sents an automatic call me text to my mom if I just press 2 buttons). Well, so my mom calls right away and I walk off pretending like its very important.
Just ignore her.. MIL are silly.
But if ur salans are really not turning out right, then just listen to her and make a recipe book. So next time, u can use the recipe she gives u. I just call my MIL to ask her if I am unsure (mostly I am sure but I try to make her feel important… I think older women especially MILs need tht).
P.S. I dont c why ppl always gang up on u… whenever I post too, ppl think it is sooo horrible. I think my MIL isnt all tht bad but I do like to write about the little issues so I get some third-party perspective and check my attitude towards issues.