what to do in this situation as a mother...

[Sara516]

Re: what to do in this situation as a mother…

@SilentNation

as soon as i landed here my mushkilain in a way went away. i stopped calling him. i would not pay much attention to what he was up to. i had my friends back, my family, my life. if he ever called i talked to him for a few mins about how his haal chaal was and then told him how i had to do something or the other and said goodbye. the distance brought him back to me. slowly slowly when he realized that i wasn’t there for him whenever he needed me, that i had my own life, that i was a happy person again, that i wasn’t chasing him, he started to chase me. it has been a couple of months since i have been back and he literally calls me everyday, leaves sweet voicemails, emails, texts. if i ever call him n he’s with his mom or sis he would leave them to talk to me. the reason i am telling u all this is because u need to realize that u have to let him chase you.

So…then what happened when you went back to Pak (or are you still in canada?)