Re: What the heck could he have said?
Quite disturbing but I know of one case when this was an issue. The couple were nikkahofied and guy wanted to consummate the marriage. Girl was hesitant and he suggested that route so she could still stay a ‘virgin’.
The couple ended up getting divorced (not just for that reason though) and the girl has done very very well for herself mashallah. Actually quite an inspirational figure out there.
As for the couple in question on this thread, since they decided to keep what went on between them private, it’s best the OP doesn’t concern herself with inside juicy details. You’ll never know for sure 