Re: What stops a Man from Approaching a Pretty Woman?
Peace uzair1
Welcome to Gupshup … My post is my post … it is not concrete and there will be exceptions that break the general statements. I tried my hand at a bit of introspection. The response is a personal perspective … cast on others … The gist of my argument is that the heightened situation creates an emotional peak that interferes with our ability to reason out how to approach the issue.
When a person is totally infatuated then they are willing to look silly and dumb and that may annoy the other party for a while but then they might start to like the attention. It is a risk worth taking for the sort of Majnoo when he sought Layla or the sort of Romeo where he would sacrifice family and honour … someone like Casanova used his looks, charm and praises to win ladies even when they knew he had many other ladies on the side - in fact that is what intrigued them - confusingly.
But you see it depends what a woman wants as well - a bit of dangerous love or a long term marriage thing that determines how she will react.
In fact there is a lot to learn from (however much I hate the stuff) American teen dramas … they focus on different angles of the same problem.
The Wonder Years … has lots of scenarios
here are two: