What stops a Man from Approaching a Pretty Woman?

[uzair1]

Re: What stops a Man from Approaching a Pretty Woman?

@Nisha25

you make some excellent points, what if the woman shows interest though, you can tell from her eyes or expression that she also returns that attraction, like M_was_here’s situation where both knew that they liked each other, at that point wouldn’t it be more chivalrous of the man to make the first move. i don’t think a woman would have the guts to go up to the guy, the sweaty palms and nervousness in there in women too so at that point couldn’t a man take control of the situation once in awhile. if a desi guy is good looking, they’re arrogant beyond belief…well most are.

if the woman makes the first move, there is always the chance that the man will end up being a jerk and a wolf in sheep’s clothing, she takes a huge risk and puts herself a very vulnerable position.

what’s wrong with doing it the old fashioned way, you know how our grandpas did it if they had a ‘love’ marriage

uzair, look at the cute kitty and back away from the anger

dear, approaching someone is not just “walking up to someone and start talking” that is called ‘breaking the ice’ and its ok if norms require men to do that. attraction on the other hand is effortless. now listen carefully…when a woman is attracted to a man she will make it very easy for him to ‘break that ice’…so easy that he will just know that he can do no wrong and say no wrong and everything will just fall in order…that he wont need an effin pick up line or a reason to talk to her…that he wont need ‘social intelligence’ or to create a context (like Psyah referred to) before her can approach her.

now it just so happens that in the life of a common man avg/ok/reasonable looking man…that the number of times women show interest in him can be counted on finger tips… ie, if he is lucky. but an average woman still gets a lot of men interested in her during her lifetime.

so you know when people tell men who are failures at dating and picking up women, that the reason is their lack of confidence and social skills, bcos CULTURE requires men to approach. that is bull**** because when a woman is attracted to you and is interested in you she wouldnt care if you walk up to her and make a mess out of yourself. if he does that she will think its cute. she will automatically give the guy confidence.

now let me ask you a question. how come you ‘like’** Psyah**'s “scientific approach” and agree with Xtron at the same time ?
dont tell me you dont see the contradiction there.