he rv, thanks, yeh no im fine, see i dnt really care.but iv been told to care because on ur weddign day you have to look good and for other people its being skinny, i think alot of people associate being slim as the be all and end all....
i am happy, but its annoying hearing comments from the pakisss sooooo tiring...and i want to respond without sounding rude..but i always sound rude
Nadz, I don't go around telling people that they are too skinny, too fat, too pimply, etc. Because...........these things are of no interest to me. I keep my thoughts (negative) to myself. As far as comments are concerned........I either only give positive comments.........or if I'm asked for an opinion........I do my best to give positively worded suggestions.
Sometimes I cannot believe the NERVE of some people to bluntly make comments about the way others look....when they themselves are not perfect.
Look........if your cousin thinks you look beautiful in your regular everyday clothes..........then he will think you are GORGEOUS when you're decked out in your lehnga, makeup, jewelry, etc. And same goes for the people in your life that already think you're pretty. To them, you will look even more beautiful on your wedding day.
Please don't let your snotty cousins and aunties get you down. If they give you practical suggestions for your skin/hair.......then take it into consideration. However.......for the peope who refuse to be helpful........and have nothing better to do than make fun of you...........ignore them. They're jealous, insecure, and should be paid no mind.
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Bottom line: **You do what you feel is best for you as an individual. If you feel you should lose a few pounds......then do it for YOU. Not for anyone else. And nothing is more attractive than confidence.