Re: What should I do? 
Maybe I should have worded stuff better, I’m very close with my old man, we go to the gym/swimming together, we were just discussing getting a new lens for our camera, we’re both into photography etc etc, but the thing is, he would have ZERO input in where/to whom I get married, if I do go the arranged route it would come down to my mother/other relatives (of which I have few, my family isn’t too close with my paternal side of the family, and my mother is an only child right now, I can’t marry my cousins since my male cousins know what kind of an A-hole I am, they’d never let me marry their sister lmao, but anyway…)
OP siad in a recent post that the rishta’s family did like her and the guy also liked her, yet here you’re implying what I was saying earlier
basically what you’re saying is the rishta is an A-hole for doing what the parents are telling him to, yet you were giving out to me when I said he should get back to the negotiating table (sounds weird, but thats what it is really) and marry OP, and disregard the pressure.