What should I do?

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: What should I do?

@BusyBee

Ok, so I told hubby that I WILL have the party if she’s here or not. She might even cancel her plans to go this week if she finds out I’m still having the party. I told hubby not to bring up this topic with her and if she asks tell her you don’t know anything because (me) didn’t make up her mind yet. Now lets see if she asks him and then what happens!

But, I’m throwing this damn party on May 11th and you all are invited too! Anyone lives close to Atlanta?! The only downside will be that MIL will take your number from me and can stop by at your place any time!

That’s the spirit. Well, I hope everything works out well for you
I’m also interested see the outcome of all this. I could write down what I think you should do in the event of a hostile response, but it has already been said, i.e.

Her crying and being upset is NOT your problem. If she throws a fit, say you’ll miss her and maybe next time. If she keeps going, its NO longer your problem and you don’t need to get involved at all. You did your part. Let her scream and cry. You can watch TV, go to your room, read a book, get on your laptop and play some games, etc.