What should I do?

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Re: What should I do?

@IndiGo_Rain

I think we should be careful about our word-choice and not encourage negative feelings in the OP or intensify those feelings as she doesn’t need the anxiety in her condition. She was destined to get pregnant, so she did. Whatever the husband is like and as disappointing as his behavior is, he is still the father of the child. Who knows if he’ll see the light at a later point, but I think fighting aggressively against MIL is not going to help as it’ll just harden her husband toward her and worsen the home atmosphere and she doesn’t need the tension while being pregnant. **Taking a calmer approach **and letting MIL provide her with ammunition /dig a hole for herself with her antics will build a stronger case for her when and if decides to confront her husband. **If after some time, there is still no improvement, **she can discuss the issue and conditions with him and stay with her parents while he figures out what he wants to do.

After some time if there is improvement?? Hasn’t she done that for 3+ years already? How much more would be classified as “some time”!?