This is a mature and respectable approach. But also a fruitless one. She is going to have a child - she will have to have better human beings as examples around that child. I don’t know if I buy into the idea of slaving after MIL, FIL and Husband so they can realize her value in HER BURHAPA. Zayeefi mein sabko Allah Tala yaad ajate hein - what’s the big deal if they realize it then? There should be a quality of life one leads - this isn’t it. How do you raise a kid with people like that? At some point, he/she will NOT respect their own mother and that’s just how it is.