Re: What should I do?
Aulaad Allah ki dain hai. Many times people who don’t want kids and use precautions or can’t have them end up getting pregnant. This baby was meant to happen, no use in lamenting this. Hopefully it’ll bring about a good change.
I do, however, still maintain that she shouldn’t have had the party behind MIL’s back. Yes, I know that many members will say that MIL is gonna act up anyway so why not go and have the party in her absence. Like I said before, it’ll result in MIL striking back even harder …and that is exactly what she’s doing and husband is not helping. The gung-ho advice to have the party was instant gratification in exchange for greater headache. In the grand scheme of things, the party zid was not that big a deal. Had she compromised and waited until MIL returned, it would make her husband see that MIL is the problem because even his wife’s compromise doesn’t improve her nasty attitude. It strengthens bb’s position and makes MIL look bad. And now that she’s pregnant…it’s even more important that she not be stressed out by this vengeful drama as jt can affect the baby. Keeping this in mind, she should just ignore MIL’s schemes and strengthen relationship with husband and pray that Allah keep her baby healthy and safe because sadly there is a jealous, resentful, and unwelcoming attitude toward this unborn child in the home from some parties.
Im not saying she shouldn’t have gotten pregnant but wondering why she’s so surprised that htey’re still acting like this. After so many years of crap being flung how do you NOT see that it won’t change?