What should I do?

[Paheli00]

Re: What should I do?

@Ma_Mooli

Bringing a baby into the mix was a mistake, but theres no point crying over that. Forget the inlaws, the baby should be your priority.

As for your husband; the least said the better. You NEED to give him an ultimatum.to do the right thing!!

@Scherbatsky

Yeah, let’s just leave it at that.

I really don’t understand how you make your decisions or prioritize: you wanted a party, party you got. You knew the outcome exactly and as it happens, you become afraid, upset and hurt all over. You wanted a baby even though the writing was on the wall about your situation but alas baby you got. Lather, rinse, repeat.

Agree with the above. Of course trying to get pregnant in this mess was a HUGE mistake. But you chose to think with your emotions instead of your brain. Its too late now and no point in wasting time/energy dwelling on the past. The other thread written by Princess…go through it carefully. Her husband/in-laws have not changed in 7 YEARS…even after 1 kid (I believe she’s currently pregnant with her 2nd). Learn something from her thread. Your in-laws will NOT change. Get that through your head. And you need to have a serious conversation with your husband and figure out whether or not he’s going to support you. Because if not, then it’s just you and the baby in that household with your husband/in-laws constantly picking on you. This is the time for you to get focused and stay strong…b/c things will only get harder with the pregnancy/new born.