What Should I do..

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In 2008 I was attached with some one .We both face many many complication after a long time we get engaged 3 months ago . After this my mother in law talk me very hardly you can say use abuses for this engagement . She already not agree with this . I make a call to my fuency and say more and more that can I say . My mother in law and sister in law talk with her about this matter and say to her . You should not marry with him . So 3 days ago she call me and said “NO” for marriage or any other relation . She not know about the whole truth that what her mother says so on. Please suggest me what should I do for this matter .

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Lol.

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Why do want to marry a girl who is easily influenced by others ?
Go look for a girl and a family which will give you peace of mind after marriage , not splitting headaches even before wedding.

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i m moving it to Life1

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Is your name Meera by any chance?

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Call her again...

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Your reply made me laugh harder. :hehe:

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:k::biggthumb:

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Thanks for reply me all I want to clear this thing in these three days I can't sleep properly and can't eat anything more then one bite . You can say I am near to cry . I can't live without her or can say don't want to live with her suggest me some solution or poison to kill myself.

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you’re a boy?

be a man and don’t kill yourself over a girl. :smack:

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Absolutely I am a boy . But I can't do any thing because I think die in one time is better then every time.

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stop acting like a sissy...life is precious, think about your parents how would they react to your suicide?

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I am also worried about my parents but what should I do if I feel very pain . I know suicide is not a good thing but you can say my mind is not working at this time so I am here to talk with my friends .

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Sigh... Pretty soon you will be posting this on GS again. But it will be a different girl then...

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Allah will punish her for hurting you like this. Move on with your life,it'll get better with time!

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okay that's fine.

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I hope my Allah isn't as petty as yours. People get heartbroken all the time. If Allah punished everyone of them, there wouldn't be too many people left not to punish.

Adam: Heartbreak sucks, I know. Been through it myself, still recovering from it. Yeah its a big kick in the gut, but the only thing that heals it is time and space and distance from the situation. Keep yourself as occupied as you can. Go out with friends even when you dont want to. Spend time with loved ones, do things you like, but the main thing is time. Hang in there bro, it will get better.

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Thanks for reply me all of them specialy **hareem01 , **](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/hareem01.html)partyslims](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/partyslims.html) and sarashahid](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/sarashahid.html) . I request to you all please pray for me .:teary1:

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I hope you know that Allah punishes the person who does you wrong, especially if you break someone's heart, or take away their "haq" unless that person forgives you himself/ herself. People get murdered all the time too, and that is all right too, then i suppose.
Everyone has to pay for his or her sins, what you consider sin and what I do may be two different things. I gave him my advice, and you gave him yours. Let everything else be between you and YOUR Allah, and me and MY Allah.

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you are in our prayers adam. :hugz: