What Should I do..

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why did she say no?

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You are comparing murder with a failed love affair? What are you smoking?

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Sara I am one women man . I am 23 year old and never think about any girl only her . I don't want she punished by Allah . She is only one girl in this world for me . I never thought about any other girl and don't want in future .

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Did you just compare being broken up with to murder?

This is just my opinion, so take it with a grain of salt: I believe Allah is the most forgiving, and asking Him for forgiveness is something He listens to. He is the most merciful. HE is the most kind. That is how I like to look at Allah when I think of HIM. Now obviously I'm not talking about murder or physically harming someone or abusing a child and things like that, but even THEN, we can't know what HE will or will not do. So treat others with kindness , yes. Leave the rest to HIM. But yeah heartbreak just seems like something that happens too often to too many people for His wrath. Ofcourse you are entitled to your opinion on this matter.

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And how long have you been thinking about "only her"? BTW, if what you say is true, I respect you and wish you the best of luck in life.

Also, I'd recommend talking to the girl again.

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I'm just trying to say what one considers a sin maynot be considered a sin by someone else. Sometimes a failed love affair can pretty much finish a girl's life. It is the person, the "victim" in question, so to speak, who has to forgive you for what you did to him/ her. And yes, I heard of someone who killed someone else in a car accident, and said "is ka waqt tha jane ka, not my fault". Anyway, to each his own. As long as I believe what I wrote, and it comforts Adam, that is all that matters.

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queer](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/queer.html) I don’t know about this why she say no .

After all I am very happy to find this great forum where can I discuss my problems because no one around me to say me some sweet words . All my friends says you become mad in three days .

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well if you want closure, find out why she said no. else, you'll be lying on your manji at 4 am staring at the stars and wondering about it.

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I believe HE forgives sins against HIM, but not against others. That is up to the person. But yes, we can all believe what we want, until we have to face Allah. Only then will we find out. I speak for myself too, I have hurt a person, and I believe (esp seeing their wrath) that I wont be forgiven for what I did to hurt them

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Adam, pull yourself together! ask her why, and if she doesn't want to have anything to do with you, then fine. Let it go.

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IceSoul](http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/icesoul.html) I attached with her 18 Feb 2008.

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Why am I reading his posts out loud with a thick Desi accent? :konfused:

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Because you have a thick desi accent?

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run away with her

or

let her go

but do something

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how?

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:smack: I do break out into a desi accent quite spontaneously, which is weird because I stutter when I am talking in Urdu. I am fluent in both but randomly break into one or the other accent… :bummer:

Anyway, that wasn’t the point. I kind of enjoyed saying out loud his posts in thick Desi accent because the way they are written..Same as when I am reading news, I start mimicking a British accent.

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:rotfl:

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I think Meera's accent will do them more justice :p

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Dude just move on.

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Oh and to everyone making fun of the poor guy's English. GROW UP.