Who said that ups and downs aren't a part of life? Look at the threads in the Life forum. More than half of them are about downs.......that we respond to with advice......in the hopes of bringing them "up."
Look, I'm not asking you to "tell a tale that consists of just a successful story." Rasmali posted a situation, which she felt "down" about. I had no idea that it pertained to you, as she hadn't mentioned any names. Her story was not what you would call "successful" but I still responded to it. I'm not picking sides here. I'm just saying......from experiences..........that what can start out as a "discussion" about issues between two members who KNOW each other.........and who might be harboring a mutual grudge..........that "discussion" can get heated pretty quickly. Not a guarantee, but the potential is there. And I suggested.........KEY WORD: Suggested...........that issues be sorted out in a less public manner. You are not obligated to act upon a suggestion......nor am I imposing it. With that said......I hope that the issues are resolved.
I accept your point of view but at the same time I feel helpless because of the following post I made earlier "as much as I emphasized to make it clear for her to understand that once a 3rd party gets involved in a relationship, all it leads to is just a further downfall" she just didn't understand and is rather out on a mission to ask advice for just about everything from you guys, can you blame me for all this oh sweet and kind one?