I actually spoke with Gulabjamun prior him posting this. His mamoo passed away (earlier this shaam in Pakistan) and I called him to give my condolences and later he tells me he read my post on GS and was thinking of opening a thread of his own. I advised him not to make a scene, let it go and focus on taking care of ur mom, mamoos family, nani etc. But wow!
Honestly, I apologize for the scene. But I do thank everyone on GS for the advice they've given, it has really helped! No more posts on my side regarding him anymore, this Case closed! He's giving me back my phone insha'Allah and taking back his ring.
Allah Hafiz!
Indeed, she called, what she failed to mention is the fact that while on the phone she asked "How are you doing?" and I'm like "I managed to make myself fine once home, but soon after reaching home i came across a post that accuses me of sleeping around with 10 girls including a jamadaarni therefore I don't feel as good as I did once i reached home" and she responds by saying "you should avoid going on that forum" then I respond by saying "do you want me to be disrespected behind my back by a few nutty bags who have no life to begin with" ?
and if i'm responding here while waiting for my greatest mamoo out of 5's tadfeen, what wrong am i doing? :-)