^ Defaming each other on a public forum can get ugly pretty quickly. It just escalates. I think the mods might have to intervene soon. Try talking about issues via PM as opposed to displaying laundry in public.
Yaar eik tou mujhay samajh nahi ataa, jub bhi main kuch kehta hun aap loug defaming ka accuse kyun kurney lug jataay hou? what did i say that leads you to believe I'm trying to defame her, I'm stating facts for God's sake!