So, tell me…what should a foreign girl do before getting married to a Pak guy. Specially, what should she do before meeting the parents of the guy???
What are the Dos and Don’ts???
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
by foreign girl, do you mean a gori? or ABD/CBD?
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
the most important thing she should do is try and marry a guy from where she is so the cultural, social and personality differences are minimized.
If it was an educated girl marrying a guy who went to top notch institute there, and their families and the 2 individuals are similar in outlook, i.e. liberal or conservative etc then its okay
the issues arise when parents somehow find some bottom of the barrel dude from the biradri who may be considered changa munda by the local relatives in Pak, however they are not marrying the guy and they are not a western-raised girl. and when a uni educated girl is getting hithced with some real loser type of shehzada, then you have the type of problems that we hear about
you have to look for compatibility, just like you will do with someone locally, actually..even more so
I would say the biggest do is to be open, be yourself, so they know who you are and if they dont like you or if you dont like them or sense they will have issues with you..to just walj away.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
Read her Fatiha.
by foreign girl, do you mean a gori? or ABD/CBD?
No..not a gori..but what is ABD/CBD?????
No..not a gori..but what is ABD/CBD?????
hahahaha.......American Born confused desi/Canadian Born confused desi
hahahahaaaaa…OMG 
No she is a Sri Lankan born grown up all over the place desi !!! So she can be whacky sometimes…
Well one thing for sure...no matter what the guy says rite now (since he can be madly, deeply n stupidly in luv) abt his plans to leave his family for u if it comes to that.......it wont happen atleast not for long. They always come backkkk and rightly so, so just be careful if that cbcd is someone who doesnt believe in family values.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
I know the Pak guy should get her tested.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
^ Tested? What do you mean?
Don't worry. Pakistani guys are human too. They're in fact much more mannered. Don't worry about what you should/shouldn't do, it'll cause you to get stressed and you'll end up doing things you don't want happening. Just be yourself when meeting his parents, that should be enough to impress them.
^ Tested? What do you mean?
For STDs.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
She is Sri Lankan? Is her last name ArjunaRanatungaWickremasinghe?
Why…do u think Paki guys are saints!!! 
Thanks for the comments everyone 
Hehehehee…no..Thankfully she has a last name that everyone find very easy to pronounce. 
For STDs.
I didn't expect that from you. She wanted serious advice.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
obtain resume
check for references
obtain a character certificate
obtain a driving abstract
obtain a criminal record
and yeah credit check if you want ;)
if everything checks in you are good
oops, did you ask for a candidate from apna pakistan
In that case
C.V
references
Passport copy
Degree (attested by the pakistani embassy)
4 passport size photographs (for visa process)
Income
Character references
aur haan how many ppl in his family are living abroad.
Re: What should foreign girl do before Marrying a Pak guy?
she should learn how to say yes even if she is not listening ... like jaisey SPRING laga hoo neck main :)
R U SERIOUS??
How about marital status?? Is there a way to find that out?