what shoud i do?

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Re: what shoud i do?

@Barfii

Pokenem,

Ask yourself what you would do if you had a daughter and her husband (your son-in-law) wss treating her in the same way your husband is treating you. What would you advise her to do?.. You don’t need us to tell you/advise you on what to do. You’re old enough to know whats right and wrong; whats acceptable and what isn’t; what you can change and what you can’t..

Personally, if this was me.. I would get rid of him. It doesn’t seem to me like in the 3yrs you have been married to him, he has ever once put you first and thought of your needs before his own. Even as the mother of his child, he still treats you with so much disrespect and cruelty!!.. Men like him never change and you would be a fool to think that one day he would change his ways.

Get rid and the sooner you do it, the better..

Good luck with whatever you decide to do..

I totally agree with above. Just want to add one more thing…if you are not happy with him and he doesn’t change ..(which I am sure he will not)…it will do more harm than any good for you child and you. I don’t know how strong of a person you are but this type of relationship is like a cancer…for you and your future…if he can hit on your sister…he is capable to do anything…you are financially stable…young…be strong and leave him…it is only 3 year of your life you wasted with him…accept it and live for your child…leave him for your child…you want your child to be raised in +ve state of mind.