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Lifestyle Relationships
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should a girl ask a guy to find out what he is like as a potential husband
in terms of
a) religion (is he a religious person, prays 5 times a day, understands his faith and follows it)
b) personality
c) charachter

Disclaimer: - These are general questions do not assume n e thing about my getting married please until i say that is happening

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ask me :blush:

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:hayaa: :rolleyes: :help: :stuck_out_tongue: :tubelight: :CareBear: :meeno:

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ask him :blush:

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:smack: this is supposed to be a SERIOUS question
that’s y i posted in General not cafe :crying:

Orpheus your not funny :disgust:

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ok, ok....well i got asked was how do i imagine married life and so forth.

I'll cut to the chase and said that: i envisage married life to be a nurturing, happy, peaceful and mutually loving institution that exists between two people and is mutually beneficial to the people in that marriage, including any children that come from that marriage.

Also i would like to marry a practicing muslimah, educated woman who loves to travel and socialise with down to earth people and who appreciates an independent nature in her husband.

aswell as to live independently after marriage and not in my 'familys' house, but to strive to maintain a strong and happy bond with them.

2 out of 3 isn't bad. :p

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right okay thnks Orph :)

sounds like your wife will get a good deal

were you asked about your religious views?

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yeah, and i said although i prayer 5 times and all and and practice my deen to the best of my ability i also am quite liberal and moderate in my thinking and understanding on certain matters.

p.s sidz your not funny. :disgust:

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kool, so basically questions hav to be simple and straight forward

Ps what did i say :confused:

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id like 2 be asked about how many kids i want, what my favourite car is, where i wanna go on honeymoon, and my prefernces at having my clothes ironed in whatever way!

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I once read sumwhere…

To know how a guy might treat you after marriage: Observe how he treats women in his family. Mother Sisters, khala, cousins, aunties, nani, chachi, anybody. And see how much he respects them. He’ll be the same with you.

About Questions I’d ask:

  1. what are his Religious Views. Make sure his views and actions dont clash :rolleyes:
    2)Where he studied. The kind of schools and unis matter like big time.
    3)His Ikhlaaq (that aint no question :konfused:)
    4)Does he WANT to get married? Or is he ready to get married? mentally, physically :rolleyes: or financially.
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^ indeed beware of the paw.

Sidz, yeah keep em simple, last thing the guy wants is, to be asked a 1001 questions.

Punjabian di Thread
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so how should the questions be phrased?

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You cant really ask a few questions and know sumbody. Living with sumbody revelas all answers :cb:

Who is The Owner Of GS???
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lol indeed! :)

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oh i know that!
it’s just you cant exactly live with a guy before marriage now can you :clown:

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don't ask about ikhlaq, personalty n character U observe it.

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^ ...that's right! ** replies in a christopher walken accent **

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Who's Christopher Walken?

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hi sweetie...moved your thread to life1 as i felt its more suited here and this is where all the relationship "pros" reside ;)