okay married ppl can help here..
What are the things that you think a man (prospective husband) should NOT have/do… example he shouldn’t smoke, drink or do drugs obviously :halo:
What are his habits that you once thought were tolerable before you married and it turned out to be intolerable after shadi?
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okay married ppl can help here..
What are the things that you think a man (prospective husband) should NOT have/do… example he shouldn’t smoke, drink or do drugs obviously :halo:
ok honestly speaking,
Re: What not to look for in a man...
haha..these r funny ones^^
2. crazy about family. willing 2 fight 4 them at any cost. especially for mother n sister
Would you not defend your parents/siblings if they needed it? Would you not care for your parents?
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^ with that all … greedy - i hate greedy men
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Re: What not to look for in a man...
he shuld be respectful towards other women i hate man who talk nasty about other women
[quote="soni27, post:3, topic:183213"]
This how women are.
No. it's not about men or women . it's about negative traits that break up a relationship or be a kind of disgrace for any1 of the two(hubby/wife)
ok honestly speaking, 1) he ( and esp his socks) should not stink 2) he should not have bad breath 3) he shouldn't be bald & have fat tummy esp @ time of wedding ( might be accepatable afterwards)
you're a woman????
Would you not defend your parents/siblings if they needed it? Would you not care for your parents?
define 4 me when they would need it? my parents/siblings dont have problems that other pakistani families dont. unless there's an axe mrderer after them, im not about 2 go ballistic. getting pissed off at every relative/person just bcs they got into a tiffy with ur family is very immature.
if 1 thinks thar caring 4 ur family and parents means that u respond by going crazy with anger to ppl in their defense then that some1 needs a lot of growing up 2 do. u can actually get ur family into more trouble if u respond to their rivals in such a manner.
Re: What not to look for in a man...
stubbornness and holding grudges def, it can ruin marriages.
ok honestly speaking, 1) he ( and esp his socks) should not stink 2) he should not have bad breath 3) he shouldn't be bald & have fat tummy esp @ time of wedding ( might be accepatable afterwards)
These are all things you can change in a man if he wants to change but things wrong with the character you can't change.
a man that is not willing to stick up for his own family (ie parents, siblings) will not stick up for his wife. a man that doesnt have respect for his own family will not have respect for his own wife.
a man that is not willing to stick up for his own family (ie parents, siblings) will not stick up for his wife. a man that doesnt have respect for his own family will not have respect for his own wife.
having respect doesnt mean that u go around fighting ppl 4 them. if u go around openly pickign fights with ur family's rivals, u r doing nothing but agravating the situation more and causing ur loved ones more pain. think about it.
having respect doesnt mean that u go around fighting ppl 4 them. if u go around openly pickign fights with ur family's rivals, u r doing nothing but agravating the situation more and causing ur loved ones more pain. think about it.
I am not sure exactly what you are talking about because it isn't entirely clear so you have to excuse me if there is any misunderstanding on my part. with that said...my question to you....
would you not want your husband to stick up for you?
getting back to the topic.......for me personally i would NOT want a husband that isnt man enough to stick up for you when the situation arises. he wont do that if he cant do that for his own family.
I am not sure exactly what you are talking about because it isn't entirely clear so you have to excuse me if there is any misunderstanding on my part. with that said...my question to you....
would you not want your husband to stick up for you?
getting back to the topic.......for me personally i would NOT want a husband that isnt man enough to stick up for you when the situation arises.
are yaar...sticking up aur baat heh aur pagalon ke tarha larna aur baat heh naaa.
in my 1st post i listed a bad quality in husband as being 2 crazy 4 family matlab u know how some guyz r just waay 2 touchy n agressive when it comes to htier famileis. more so than average is what i mean.
if my husband started getting way 2 agressive nad picking fights 4 me say just bcs someone for ex made a mean remark 2 me, no i would not like it. u know y? bcs when u show outward anger 2 someone..they usually retlaiate..especially when they feel that they have been insulted. nad then this vicious cycle doesnt end.
mere kehne ka matlab ye tha.
ab samaj me aia?
a man that is not willing to stick up for his own family (ie parents, siblings) will not stick up for his wife. a man that doesnt have respect for his own family will not have respect for his own wife.
that is so true