Agree.
But showing off how happy you are. Why should it bother you?
LOL. Well, I thought if I put in quotation marks, it would be obvious that I was being sarcastic. Oh well. I meant how miserable they are.
hmmm... i am guilty of arguing in public... n cryin too! but its not easy as it sounds... its difficult to control ur emotions when u r fighting. sometimes somethin or some topic comes up and the next thing u know ure arguing, he asks u to shut up but u go on and on cus ure so hurt u wanna know why why why!!! but i agree its not gud to fight in public :)
ya know the best thing which can be done?
Just tell him I cannot stop and I am angry on such and such thing. He may understand better.
Men sometimes don't know how to react when woman is crying.
Some just stay still, numb and helpless.
Some feel very bad and..some say whatever...jennifer!
Agree.
But. Sometimes the emotions are so strong that one cannot wait. if few sentences are said and warning is fgiven and understood then it works out good.
Warning is given!? WTH. I thought we were talking about what not to do to our partners? Two key words: not and partners.
Giving out warnings doesn't seem like it fits here.
LOL. Well, I thought if I put in quotation marks, it would be obvious that I was being sarcastic. Oh well. I meant how miserable they are.
Oh I got it.
Showing off like that is just funny. I think people do get the drift they are faking.
Warning is given!? WTH. I thought we were talking about what not to do to our partners? Two key words: not and partners.
Giving out warnings doesn't seem like it fits here.
So not giving warning can be included. Sorry I gave solution before stating what not to do.
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Another thing you might agree.
Never make your partner feel insecure of his or her looks or sex apeal or his or her performance.
Complementing each other goes a long way and helps each other.
Okay dude, giving warnings is not a solution. 
I really hope that’s not what you were saying.
Agree.
But. Sometimes the emotions are so strong that one cannot wait. if few sentences are said and warning is fgiven and understood then it works out good.
But showing off how happy you are. Why should it bother you?
u hit the rite nerve!!!! sometimes, indeed, it is nearly impossible to wait and shut up!!!
and for showing off ure happy... i m guilty of that too... only cus i dun wanna show the world i m unhappy... no i dun mean i show PDA... i just laugh and involve him when i talk and other things like give him food etc that show i m soooooooo nice and happy with him... hehehe wicked na ;) but once ure married you HAVE to learn the tricks of the trade and know sometimes u have to show that youre a gr8 couple!!
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whoops! i just realised she was being sarcastic.. but whatever, i mean whatever i said !
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It's not somethimg to be told.. You learn the tricks gradually once you're experienced and once you're sincere.
Another thing you might agree.
Never make your partner feel insecure of his or her looks or sex apeal or his or her performance.
Complementing each other goes a long way and helps each other.
Yeah, totally second that. Make each other feel good - so that you actually want to be around one another.
I think complimenting can be non-verbal, too. It's like when he sees her, he doesn't have to say she looks beautiful for her to know that he likes what he sees!
Thats exactly I wanted to say gal!
What I said is using few words like
" look dear, we are both emotional and this is not the time to argue in public. Can we settle this at home?"
Not giving this sort of warning is not good. Someone should say this.
It's not somethimg to be told.. You learn the tricks gradually once you're experienced and once you're sincere.
yeah i realised it the hard way. u cant say u love him and love his family and all that crap in frnt of the world!! u have to physically show it... and as i said before, u have to learn the tricks so that the world thinks u r genuinely happy and a couple made in heaevn! :)
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I don't think that "look dear" line is necessary. Let's say you both get pissed and hurt in public - opening your mouth is just a bad idea. Simple. Don't say anything.
yeah i realised it the hard way. u cant say u love him and love his family and all that crap in frnt of the world!! u have to physically show it... and as i said before, u have to learn the tricks so that the world thinks u r genuinely happy and a couple made in heaevn! :)
You dont need tos how it to REST of the world even! Just make your partnmer realise it and that's it... You cant make eneryone happy!
u hit the rite nerve!!!! sometimes, indeed, it is nearly impossible to wait and shut up!!! and for showing off ure happy... i m guilty of that too... only cus i dun wanna show the world i m unhappy... no i dun mean i show PDA... i just laugh and involve him when i talk and other things like give him food etc that show i m soooooooo nice and happy with him... hehehe wicked na ;) but once ure married you HAVE to learn the tricks of the trade and know sometimes u have to show that youre a gr8 couple!!
It takes a lot of work to look happy right in the middle of argument if someone sees what is happening.
As a man I can tell you that goes a long way in building relation if woman just stops and keeps a happy face. It shows she cares and how he must do something to match.
I don't think that "look dear" line is necessary. Let's say you both get pissed and hurt in public - opening your mouth is just a bad idea. Simple. Don't say anything.
Thats even better. One can always talk about it later when the heat of moment is not there.
Yeah, totally second that. Make each other feel good - so that you actually want to be around one another.
I think complimenting can be non-verbal, too. It's like when he sees her, he doesn't have to say she looks beautiful for her to know that he likes what he sees!
And think of it other way, you are not just making other person happy. You are eventually going to get the result in better way.
So
Never make your partner feel insecure.
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^ May be this is off-topic, but if you have accidently made them feel insecure, how can you undo the damage?
People don’t look at me, I did no such thing 