It's not somethimg to be told.. You learn the tricks gradually once you're experienced and once you're sincere.
yeah i realised it the hard way. u cant say u love him and love his family and all that crap in frnt of the world!! u have to physically show it... and as i said before, u have to learn the tricks so that the world thinks u r genuinely happy and a couple made in heaevn! :)