P^2- its not a question of getting to a point, its expectation setting, that was one thing we did even before we got married. to me she is most beautiful first thing in the morning ..hair going wild, no make up..just her pure and simple, she dunn buy it though even though i have been telling her that since day 1. (the breath is a diff story though)
i mean there is a balance, i cant be bumming all weekend in boxers and tanktop, no showering or shaving because well i just want to bum around..not that I would want to do that anyways, but there is a balance between just doing what you please without any regard to your spouse, or just trying to meet some ridiculous expectations set for you or by you.
See, that is nice. You appreciate her for WHO she is, most important thing.
I hope he can be okay with my jungly hair and no makeup self too. I dont think I would like to be bummy always (I love to dress up), niether would he. He actually is pretty cautious of how he dresses around me, way more then I am. LOL. Im okay with jeans, a shirt and boots. The expectation though of your partner not looking perfect all the time is necessary.