so much?
Is it the financial/material loss that’s unbearable?
Is it the loss of a loved one that makes one miserable?
Or, is it the anger at oneself on their “gullibility”?
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It's the combination of hte latter two..
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yeap, the later two...
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Could it be the pain you see in someone eyes?
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i think its also the fact that you trusted that person...and you are forced to question yourself
S.
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umm thats if uve betrayed someone… yeap, then the pain would increase
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Women love to inflict such pain on each other and men, don't they.
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Your vulnerability is exposed.
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in my case, i am the one who betrays ppl…i dont remember when someone betrayed me…but i am sick in the head and go thru weird phases sometimes and end up betraying ppl…i get bouts of insanity where my mental faculties fail entirely and shaitaan totally overtakes me
why did God make me such a bad person? why dont i have the strength to improve myself? why do i have to hurt the feelings of ppl i care abt? what if they start hating me? it HURTS 
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^^
I always knew you had the devil in you woman.
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I think it would be number 3. If someone has betrayed you its highly unlikely that you are still in love with them or consider them a loved one.
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FF but u always tend to forgive even the seemingly biggest betrayals of ppl u love coz u always give them the benefit of the doubt or simply jus forgive them and if there is still any residual negativity in ur heart then u blame urself for even thinking that they cud betray u or thinking anything wrong abt em.
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Would you? I don;t think I could forgive someone for having betrayed me! If it never came down to me hating the person I'm sure i could never carry on loving them either. If its a confusion or misunderstanding that makes me think I have been betrayed well thats another story.
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^ I'd forgive someone who'd have betrayed me, love forgives all.
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You don't have to forgive them LK, sometimes they just forgive themselves! I am learning so much from my ex!
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Is she that baby jaan everyone kept referring to?
LK even if you forgive would u be able to love them the same way again?
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Oh no no no. That's the baby jaan prior to the 'baby jaan'.
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FF, never say neve. Now, define betrayl please…
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To decieve someone, to be disloyal to them.