FF this kinda stuff happens in life. people do "betray" u. its not really betrayal tho. we all make mistakes. sometimes really bad ones. sometimes we hurt others thru those mistakes really badly. its best to try not to do that tho but we do.
but life goes on. and yes u do love ppl the same way again. no relationship in this world is completely free of any "cracks" but wisdom i think is in jus letting go of those negative events. why lessen the love in a relationship? isnt that a lose lose situation. u might say we cant help it. i think we can.
Femme, I hate myself for this very fault..yes I would love…
Love ain’t a feeling, it’s a decision, and once I make that decision, I have no intention of going back on it. I becomes so ungraved in that decision and my conviction to carry it through gets stronger as the walls get higher.
^ I agree. In most cases. I think if it were a deeper bond...like someone you've been married to for a long time who has cheated on you and you are indeed close to them...they just acted really stupid - then I think the hurt is not due to the ego so much as it is to the sorrow that you know this beautiful relationship is over, even if you decide to stay together anyway.